16 Lessons From Sixteen Years Of Ministry
These articles gather together lessons learned across sixteen years of full time pastoral ministry. They are not theories developed in study alone, nor reflections written at a comfortable distance from real life. They have been shaped through sermons that felt weak, meetings that felt heavy, criticism that stung, and moments of quiet joy when Christ proved faithful again.
Many of these lessons were learned slowly. Some were learned the hard way. They arose through ordinary shepherding, through family life under pressure, through conflict, through weariness, and through seasons where the Lord was patiently reshaping my assumptions about success, identity, and endurance.
My hope is not to prescribe a method, but to offer settled counsel under Scripture. If these reflections steady younger pastors, guard a family, strengthen a weary shepherd, or remind any servant that Christ loves His church more than we ever could, then they will have served their purpose.
The Necessity Of A Persevering Prayer Life
Why endurance in prayer sustains endurance in ministry.
Read Article1. You Are Not Your Ministry
Why identity in Christ must sit deeper than role, fruit, or reputation.
Read Article2. Your First Flock Is at Home
Why faithfulness in the household shapes everything in public ministry.
Read Article3. The Call Must Be Deeper Than Applause
How conviction before God sustains when encouragement fades.
Read Article4. The Word Does the Work
Why Scripture, not personality or strategy, builds the church.
Read Article5. People Are More Fragile Than You Realise
Learning to shepherd gently in a wounded world.
Read Article6. Most Change Happens Slowly
Trusting patient growth rather than demanding quick results.
Read Article7. You Cannot Fix Every Situation
Accepting limits while remaining faithful in responsibility.
Read Article8. The Church Is Slower to Change Than You Think
Holding conviction together with patience and humility.
Read Article9. Conflict Is Inevitable, Bitterness Is Not
Guarding the heart while navigating disagreement.
Read Article10. Leadership Is Often Lonely
Finding steadiness when responsibility feels isolating.
Read Article11. Suffering Is Part of the Curriculum
How God uses hardship to deepen pastoral tenderness.
Read Article12. Private Holiness Matters More Than Public Giftedness
Why hidden faithfulness sustains visible ministry.
Read Article13. Success Is Not What You Think
Redefining fruitfulness through the lens of faithfulness.
Read Article14. God Is More Patient With His Church Than You Are
Learning to reflect divine patience in slow seasons.
Read Article15. You Will Not Be Remembered For What You Fear
Living and leading without being ruled by imagined outcomes.
Read Article16. Christ Loves His Church More Than You Do
Resting in the Lord who builds and keeps His people.
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